Punishment
In the corner
Stand in the corner, nose to the wall, hands behind your back. Stand still until time runs out.
2 minutes
Free BDSM game for couples
A kinky date night for two, made for beginners
Kinky Date Night is a free BDSM game for couples who are just starting to explore. You agree on your limits first, then the game draws tasks, punishments and rewards for your night. Nobody has to come up with anything or say it out loud.
- Free
- No sign-up
- No download
- 18+ only
How it works
Four steps and you’re playing
- 1
You agree on your limits
Go through the categories together. Anything you don’t tick never comes up. Add the toys you have, and you’re set.
- 2
The dom draws a card
Only the dom holds the phone. They draw, read the card out loud, and the dice decide the details: how long, where, with what.
- 3
You rate it
Done it? A reward is earned. Didn’t work out? A punishment comes, or a one-minute rescue task. You move up a level when you’re both ready.
- 4
You take care of each other
At the end, the game doesn’t just say goodbye. It gives you a few simple aftercare ideas: water, a blanket, a hug.
The deck
This is what a card looks like
Every card says exactly what happens. The stamps are the dice rolls: the game decides them, so you don’t have to.
Reward
Head in my lap
Rest your head in my lap. I stroke your hair until time runs out.
4 minutes
Task
Coins on your hand
I put a coin on the back of your outstretched hand. Until time runs out, I do what the die rolled. If it falls, you failed.
nibble your ear3 minutes
Five kinds of cards
Task
What the sub has to do. If it doesn’t work out, a punishment follows.
Punishment
When a task didn’t work out. Proportionate, and always agreed in advance.
Reward
After a task well done. Sometimes a lifeline too.
Rescue task
A quick, easy one-minute task. It cancels a punishment or ends an effect.
Event
A rule that lasts a while, like a forbidden word or sounds only.
Made for beginners
No experience needed
Nothing to invent
In truth or dare, someone always has to come up with the dare. Here the deck does it for you, step by step.
Only what you said yes to
The game filters by your limits, your toys and your bodies. Anything outside them never comes up.
Works for every couple
Man and woman, two women, two men: the cards adapt to bodies, not genders.
Three levels, no rush
Teasing, gentle penetration, then whatever you’re up for. You only move on when you both feel like it.
We store nothing about you
The game runs on your phone. No account needed, your limits never leave it, and one tap deletes everything.
The night
What do you need for a kinky date night?
No shopping trip, no long preparation. This is enough:
- An hour or two of peace, with notifications muted.
- A charged phone. That’s your deck.
- Whatever toys you have. None is fine too: plenty of cards need nothing.
- A glass of water and a blanket for the end.
- A safe word you agree on, like “Red”. When it’s said, everything stops at once.
Safety
We take it seriously, without making it heavy
The safe word stops everything
Agree on one in advance. When it’s said, you stop at once, no questions asked. That’s not failure, it’s part of the game.
There’s always a way out
Instead of a punishment, you can choose a one-minute rescue task, and the dom can end the night at any time.
The game keeps watch for you
If a restraint or an effect lasts too long, it tells you it’s time to ease off.
Aftercare at the end
Water, a blanket, a hug. In any order.
Questions
Frequently asked questions
Is it really free?
Yes. No subscription, no account and no download: the game runs in your browser, on phone and computer.
Do we need sex toys?
No. Many cards need no toys at all. The game picks from what you tick and skips what you don’t have.
Does it work for same-sex couples?
Yes. The game filters by body parts, not genders, so it works for every pairing.
What does the game store about us?
Nothing you don’t save yourselves. Your settings and the game in progress stay on your phone, and your limits are never sent anywhere. You only need an account to write your own cards.
Who holds the phone?
Only the dom. They draw, read the card out loud and rate it. The sub plays and signals with words or a sign you agreed on.
What if we don’t like something?
Anything you don’t tick never comes up. If something feels wrong during the game, the safe word stops everything, and the dom can end the night at any time.
How long does a game last?
As long as you like. You can set a reminder between 5 and 180 minutes, but the dom always decides when it ends.
How many people can play?
One dom and one sub. A version with more subs is coming soon.
Tonight?
One phone, the two of you, and a deck that only asks for what you said yes to.