Kinky Date Night

The deck

Every card in the deck

78 cards from the game: tasks, punishments, rewards, rescue tasks and events. In the game the dice decide the details, and you only get cards that fit your limits.

These are the cards of the first two levels. The third, hardest level is only in the game.

Tasks

The sub gets a challenge they can fail: keep still, keep balance, hold out. Fail it, and a punishment follows.

Read more: Submissive Tasks for Beginner Couples: 25 Ideas for a Kinky Date Night

Task

Hands on the table

Put your palms on the table until time runs out. Meanwhile I do to you what the die rolled. If you lift them, you failed.

Task

Coins on your hand

I put a coin on the back of your outstretched hand. Until time runs out, I do what the die rolled. If it falls, you failed.

Task

Don’t move while I stroke you

Lie down. Until time runs out, I slowly stroke you where the die rolled. You may only blink. If you move, you failed.

Task

Wartenberg wheel

Lie down and close your eyes. Until time runs out, I roll the Wartenberg wheel over where the die rolled. If you move, you failed.

Task

Breath on your skin

Lie down, close your eyes. I trace your body with my breath without touching you. If you move before time runs out, you failed.

Task

Mirror me

Stand facing me. I move slowly and touch myself. Copy everything until time runs out. If you fall behind or differ, you failed.

Task

Wait for the kiss

Stand before me, lips slightly parted, and keep still. I lean close but only kiss you when time is up. If you lean in, you failed.

Task

Fake an orgasm

Fake an orgasm for me – with sounds, with moves, as well as you can. If I don’t believe it, you failed.

Task

Talk while touching yourself

Tell me about your day while playing with your nipples. If you get stuck or stop touching before time runs out, you failed.

Task

Turn me on, no hands

You have the time the die rolled to get me wet/get me hard. You can’t use your hands. If you don’t manage, you failed.

Task

Foot worship

Kneel in front of me. Kiss, lick and rub my feet and calves until time runs out. If you go higher than my knee, you failed.

Task

Toe licking

Lie on your back. Until time runs out, I lick between the toes of the foot the die rolled. If you pull it away, you failed.

Task

Suck my toes

Kneel in front of me and suck my toes one by one, ten seconds each, as if you were licking my pussy/sucking my cock. Skip one: you failed.

Task

Lick it off me

I spread e.g. whipped cream or chocolate sauce on me where the die rolled. Lick it clean, no hands, in time. Any left: you failed.

Task

Guess what touches you

Blindfold on. I stroke you with something, you guess what it is. As many times as the die rolled. One wrong guess: you failed.

Task

Count down

Count down from 105 by threes while I kiss your neck. Miss one, start over. If you don’t reach zero before time is up, you failed.

Task

Book on your head

Stand up straight with a book on your head. Until time runs out, I spank you with what the die rolled. If it falls, you failed.

Task

Coin on the wall

On your knees, press a coin to the wall with your nose. Until time runs out, I do what the die rolled. If it falls, you failed.

Task

Undress me with your teeth

I tie your hands behind your back with what the die rolled. Undress me with your teeth only. Not done in time? You failed.

Task

Tied up and tickled

I tie you down with what the die rolled and tickle you until time runs out. If you laugh, you failed.

Task

Count the strokes

Bend over. I strike you as many times as the die rolled, with what and where it rolled. Count aloud. Miss a count, I start over.

Task

Coins on your tongue

Stick out your tongue, I put coins on it one by one. If fewer than three stay on, you failed. I pamper you 10 seconds per coin.

Task

Staring contest

We look into each other’s eyes. Whoever blinks or looks away first loses. If it’s you, you failed.

Task

Beg like a puppy

Kneel, paws up, tongue out. Until time runs out, I do to you what the die rolled. If you break the pose, you failed.

Task

Purr

Lie in my lap like a kitten. I stroke you, and you purr the whole time. If you stop before time runs out, you failed.

Task

Fetch it in your mouth

On all fours. I throw what the die rolled, you fetch it in your mouth, as many times as it rolled. Use your hands: you failed.

Task

Lick my hand like a kitten

Lick my hand like a kitten: my fingers one by one, then my palm. If you stop before time runs out, you failed.

Task

Pamper me with your face

I spread my legs. Pamper my pussy/my cock only with your face and hair until time runs out. If your hands or mouth touch me, you failed.

Task

You can only watch

I masturbate in front of you. Until time runs out, you watch without touching me or speaking. If you make it, you get a taste.

Task

Keep your hips still

Lie on your back. I slowly lick/suck you until time runs out. Your hips can’t move – push toward me or pull away, and you failed.

Task

Wall sit

Slide down the wall as if sitting on a chair. Like that, lick my pussy/suck my cock. Slide up or sit before time runs out: you failed.

Task

Face sitting

Lie on your back. I sit on your face, and until time runs out you pleasure me with your mouth. If you use your hands, you failed.

Task

Follow with your mouth

Kneel, your mouth a breath from my pussy/my cock. I move slowly, you follow. Touch it or fall behind before time is up: you failed.

Task

Grind on my knee

I sit down. Straddle my knee and grind your pussy/your cock against it until time runs out. If you stop, you failed.

Task

Hump the pillow

On all fours, hump the pillow between your legs like a dog in heat until time runs out. If you stop or speak, you failed.

Task

Count while I tease you

Count to 99 by threes while I finger you/stroke your cock. Miss one, start over. If you don’t finish before time runs out, you failed.

Task

Beg

Kneel and beg for what the die rolled: why you deserve it, what you’ll give for it. Can’t convince me in a minute? You failed.

Task

Don’t drop the underwear

I put underwear between your teeth/hang underwear on your hard cock. Until time runs out, I do what the die rolled. If it falls, you failed.

Task

Teasing with feet

Lie on your back, legs apart. I tease your pussy/your cock with my soles until time runs out. Move or touch yourself: you failed.

Punishments

When the sub fails, a punishment follows. Playful punishments within the limits you agreed on, from standing in the corner to spanking.

Read more: BDSM Punishment Ideas: 12 Playful Punishments for Beginners

Punishment

Say it out loud

Kneel and say the sentence the die rolled out loud, as many times as it rolled. If you get stuck or slip up, start over.

Punishment

In the corner

Stand in the corner, nose to the wall, hands behind your back. Stand still until time runs out.

Punishment

On tiptoe

Stand on tiptoe, arms above your head, until time runs out. If your heels or arms drop, the time starts over.

Punishment

Hold it at arm’s length

Hold what the die rolled at arm’s length until time runs out. If you drop it or lower your arms, the time starts over.

Punishment

Apologize

Kneel in front of me and apologize – sincerely and in detail, until time runs out.

Punishment

Writing on your body

With lipstick or a marker, I write the word the die rolled on your body, where it rolled. It stays there until the game ends.

Punishment

Ice cube in your mouth

I put an ice cube in your mouth. No chewing, no spitting it out, until it has melted completely.

Punishment

Led by the hair

I grab your hair at the nape and, until time runs out, lead and hold you by it wherever I want. You have to follow.

Punishment

Scratching

Lie on your stomach. I drag my nails down your back, slowly and firmly – as many times as the die rolled.

Punishment

Nipple clamps

I put the clamps on your nipples. They stay on until time runs out. If you take them off, we start over.

Punishment

Rubber band

I put a rubber band on you where the die rolled, then stretch it and let it snap – as many times as it rolled.

Punishment

Strikes on your soles

Lie on your stomach, bend your knees, soles up. I strike your soles with what the die rolled, as many times as it rolled.

Punishment

Bad dog

On all fours, butt up. I spank you as many times as the die rolled; bark after each one. If you forget, that one doesn’t count.

Punishment

Drink from the bowl

I put a bowl of water on the floor. On all fours, no hands, you drink from it like a dog until time runs out.

Punishment

Strikes on your inner thigh

Lie on your back, thighs apart. I strike your inner thigh with what the die rolled, as many times as it rolled.

Punishment

Hot wax

Lie down. I drip wax from a massage candle on you where the die rolled. Until time runs out, you can’t move.

Punishment

Sweeping off the pegs

I clip as many clothespins on you as the die rolled, where it rolled. Then I sweep them off you in one motion.

Rewards

A task done well earns a reward: praise, a hug, pampering, or a lifeline against the next punishment.

Read more: Rewards for Subs: 10 Reward Ideas After a Task Well Done

Reward

Praise

Until time runs out, I tell you what I adore about you. You can’t interrupt – just listen.

Reward

Head in my lap

Rest your head in my lap. I stroke your hair until time runs out.

Reward

Hug and a forehead kiss

I hug you tight and kiss your forehead. You did well.

Reward

Naked cuddle

We cuddle naked, skin on skin, until time runs out. Nothing else.

Reward

Hand-feeding

Kneel, close your eyes and open your mouth. I feed you something tasty by hand, e.g. strawberries, chocolate or whipped cream.

Reward

Good dog

Good dog! I scratch you behind the ears and on your belly and praise you until time runs out.

Reward

Foot massage

Lie down. I massage your soles and toes until time runs out.

Reward

Slow oral

Lie on your back. I lick/suck you slowly: first my breath, then my lips, finally my tongue. Until time runs out, just enjoy.

Reward

Use my hand

Take my hand and use it on yourself the way you like until time runs out. Show me what you like.

Reward

Lifeline

You got a lifeline! Use it once to get out of a punishment or an active effect for free.

Rescue tasks

Easy one-minute tasks. The sub can use one to avoid a punishment or to end an effect that is still running.

Rescue task

Say it ten times: I’ll be good

Say it out loud ten times in a row: “I’ll be good.”

Rescue task

Five compliments

Give me five compliments. No repeats.

Rescue task

Kiss my feet

For one minute, kiss my feet all over, each toe too.

Rescue task

Hum

For one minute, hum a song for me while I kiss your ear. No laughing.

Rescue task

Whisper what you’d do

For one minute, whisper in my ear what you’d do to me if you were in charge.

Events

Rules that stay in force for a while as the game goes on: a forbidden word, silence, one hand tied back.

Event

Snap for a kiss

While this event is active: every time I snap my fingers, you must kiss my breast/my chest right away.

Event

Forbidden word

While this event is active, you can’t say the word the die rolled. If you say it anyway, you get a punishment.

Event

Sounds only

While this event is active, you can’t speak – only moan, whimper and sigh. If you say a word, you get a punishment.

Event

One hand tied back

I tie one of your hands behind your back with what the die rolled. While this event is active, you do everything with one hand.

Event

Puppy or kitten

While the event is active, you are what the die rolled: you walk on all fours and only bark or meow. If not, you get a punishment.

Event

No cumming

While the event is active, you can’t cum. If you get close, say so and we stop. If you cum anyway, you get a punishment.

Event

Cock ring

I put the cock ring on your cock. While this event is active, it stays on.

Play the deck

The game draws cards based on the equipment and limits you set, and the dice decide what happens, where and for how long.